quality time
Dear friends, I would like to talk about the quality time that we spent with our family.
If you are not sure about the quality time, I will tell you with a simple example. Some time we find time to talk to our family when we are having dinner or watching TV. But when we spent time separately with our loved one that is one example of Quality time. I just want to share a little story to portray the significance of quality time.
One day a small boy was waiting for his dad to come from work. It was around 12’o clock. He normally goes to bed at 9’o clock. But he waited his dad so long. Finally his dad came. His dad really surprised, and he asked the boy. “Hey dear, haven’t you slept yet? … No dad, I am waiting for you, I want to ask something you. Ok tell me dear. And he asked, “dad, how much do you earn for an hour? The man baffled and told him, why do you want to know all these? But the boy insisted, oh! Tell me dad...And the dad reluctantly replied. “40 Dollars”. Then the boy asked his dad again? “Dad, can I borrow 20 dollar? This time dad became angry. And said, “John behaves yourself, why do you want such a lot of money … go & sleep.
He was really upset, he whispered with anger “what all things today’s generation want to know, how much do you earn, give me 20 dollar”. But after some time the man felt bad, he felt a bit remorseful “oh! I shouldn’t have shouted at him, he must have got something to buy in urgent, he went to his room and said “ I am sorry my dear, here is your 20 dollar, the boy was really happy, he said thanks to his dad, and he took something from under the bed , it was 2,3 notes. Actually it was 20 dollar and he added that 20 dollar with which his father gave him and he gave that 40 dollar to his father and he asked “DAD here is your forty dollar, give me your one hour for me.
My dear friends see the children have to beg us for our one hour. This is what happens, in the rat race of making more & more money we are forgetting to spend quality time with our children or family. We are rapaciously running after the dollars & Dirhams. We can’t buy the precious quality time with these dollars & Dirhams. We are dying to make money. Actually we are dying a lot of time before the actual death. and when we are about to face the actual death, then we realize that, we forgot to live life at its best.
OK, I will tell you a story of a business man & his daughter. His daughter was very brilliant girl who is good at studying. Very active & smart girl. Suddenly this girl started weaker in her study. She became very depressed. She is always thinking something. Her father came to know this. Her father also tensed up. What happened to my daughter? He took her a best psychiatrist available in the time. He said the doctor about her condition, he said I gave her everything, I gave her a Mercedes on her birthday, and I gave her a diamond necklace. Then the doctor replied, she wants you, not the Mercedes, not the diamond necklace. See if you had spent enough quality time with her she wouldn’t have like this.
My dear friends, what is the moral of this story? The moral story is “spend the quality time with your loved ones”.
If you are not sure about the quality time, I will tell you with a simple example. Some time we find time to talk to our family when we are having dinner or watching TV. But when we spent time separately with our loved one that is one example of Quality time. I just want to share a little story to portray the significance of quality time.
One day a small boy was waiting for his dad to come from work. It was around 12’o clock. He normally goes to bed at 9’o clock. But he waited his dad so long. Finally his dad came. His dad really surprised, and he asked the boy. “Hey dear, haven’t you slept yet? … No dad, I am waiting for you, I want to ask something you. Ok tell me dear. And he asked, “dad, how much do you earn for an hour? The man baffled and told him, why do you want to know all these? But the boy insisted, oh! Tell me dad...And the dad reluctantly replied. “40 Dollars”. Then the boy asked his dad again? “Dad, can I borrow 20 dollar? This time dad became angry. And said, “John behaves yourself, why do you want such a lot of money … go & sleep.
He was really upset, he whispered with anger “what all things today’s generation want to know, how much do you earn, give me 20 dollar”. But after some time the man felt bad, he felt a bit remorseful “oh! I shouldn’t have shouted at him, he must have got something to buy in urgent, he went to his room and said “ I am sorry my dear, here is your 20 dollar, the boy was really happy, he said thanks to his dad, and he took something from under the bed , it was 2,3 notes. Actually it was 20 dollar and he added that 20 dollar with which his father gave him and he gave that 40 dollar to his father and he asked “DAD here is your forty dollar, give me your one hour for me.
My dear friends see the children have to beg us for our one hour. This is what happens, in the rat race of making more & more money we are forgetting to spend quality time with our children or family. We are rapaciously running after the dollars & Dirhams. We can’t buy the precious quality time with these dollars & Dirhams. We are dying to make money. Actually we are dying a lot of time before the actual death. and when we are about to face the actual death, then we realize that, we forgot to live life at its best.
OK, I will tell you a story of a business man & his daughter. His daughter was very brilliant girl who is good at studying. Very active & smart girl. Suddenly this girl started weaker in her study. She became very depressed. She is always thinking something. Her father came to know this. Her father also tensed up. What happened to my daughter? He took her a best psychiatrist available in the time. He said the doctor about her condition, he said I gave her everything, I gave her a Mercedes on her birthday, and I gave her a diamond necklace. Then the doctor replied, she wants you, not the Mercedes, not the diamond necklace. See if you had spent enough quality time with her she wouldn’t have like this.
My dear friends, what is the moral of this story? The moral story is “spend the quality time with your loved ones”.
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